Is it time to say goodbye - need more advice?

I think by nature women like to talk and men are typically quieter. I also think 30s and 40's can be the time of high drive for women but I also think that slows down. I think you have to weigh what is important to you and decide how much you need in your life that is realistic. You should talk to your husband about setting up a schedule that you guys can realistically follow. So in other words he has X amount of days where you are not in his ear, he has quiet time and space. You also get X amount of days were you either get a date night or talk night or both that he feels he can keep up with..realistically and not over compensating because you told him you will leave him. Otherwise if you are that miserable and this just isn't working for you then leave. If it were me I'd stay where I was truly loved and put together a workable schedule so both our needs could be met.