Can anyone tell me whats going on, is she playing games with me or what. im so confused?

so weve only been dating for 4 months. we used to talk on the phone and text all the time and we would always say and text really sweet stuff to each other, like she would randomly text me i love you and call me y all the time and whatnot. anyway, we havent talked on the phone for like a month and we hardly text. she nver texts me first either and ill text her and say "hows your day going" and she'll say "good" and thats all ill hear from her for the rest of the day. she used to initiate all the time and now she doesnt (which ill admit that our life is pretty boring). anyway, when were together everything is great, we get along very well and everything, so i dont know whats up. and i know she isnt cheating, but im sure i look frickin needy as hell cause im always the one texting her first.